When Visibility Feels Like a Contact Sport Without Protection (BMM EP013)
by Suzanne Proksa
Sep 01, 2024
Have you ever had those moments when stepping into the spotlight feels like entering a no-holds-barred arena, and you're without any armor? Trust me, I get it. When I first started out, the mere thought of getting visible made my heart race faster than finishing a margarita on a Friday night. But here's the good news: it doesn't have to be this way. Let's dive into how you can shine without feeling like you're ducking punches at every turn.
First things first, let's talk mindset. You've got to be your own cheerleader. If there's one thing I've learned, it's that nobody can lift you out of those mindset slumps unless you make the first move. Stock up on some fantastic mindset books. I can't recommend Tanya Rainier's enough, and anything by Jen Sincero is pure gold. "You Are a Badass" had me nodding and laughing, and it completely shifted my perspective.
Next up, clarity is your new best friend. If going visible feels more painful than a surprise papercut, it's likely because you're not totally clear on who you're serving and what you're bringing to the table. You need to get crisp about your message, your audience, and what you offer. Imagine baking a cake without knowing your ingredients – it'd be a mess, right? Take some time to define these elements clearly, and watch how it becomes easier to step up and be seen.
And let's not forget the importance of listening to your audience. Pay attention to what your community is buzzing about, their pain points, and their aspirations. If you're in the business coaching or health coaching space, you've got it slightly easier since people love sharing their struggles and wins in these areas. Cater to their needs, and you'll find your content resonating more deeply.
Remember that time I felt like shrinking back into my shell because of a snarky online comment? Yeah, those moments can really sting. But they also teach us something crucial: our past experiences are powerful. Dive into your own stories. The moments of triumph and even those facepalm episodes create relatability. People connect with real, unpolished experiences, so share from the heart.
And here's a bit of a fun challenge – mix up your modes of posting. Are you all about Facebook live? Or maybe you're more of a written-word wizard? Don't box yourself into just one method of being seen. Experiment with different platforms and formats to see what feels most natural and engaging for you and your audience. It's like finding the perfect pair of shoes, sometimes you have to try several before you find the ones that make you wanna dance!
Remember this: It's all about finding a strategy that fits you and your audience like your favorite jeans – comfortable and just right. Action is better than perfection, so don't be afraid to get messy while you figure it out. After all, the journey to being visible is one of self-discovery as much as it is about business growth.
Keep shining, and I'll catch up with you soon!
P.S. If you're feeling a little lost and need some tailored guidance, check out my Magnetize Mastermind. It's designed to get you moving in the right direction and to make visibility feel less like a contact sport and more like a fun game! Let's do this together!
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